How to Talk About Deat

Talking about death to those closest to you, to the people you care about the most in the world, is never easy. There are several reasons why it's so difficult to talk about this sensitive subject; perhaps it's the fear that you'll say the wrong thing, or maybe it's the worry that you will unintentionally hurt someone's feelings. But when honest conversations about death do not occur, it can make those grieving feel additional distress, loneliness, and pain. 

 

But where do you begin handling this topic? What's the best way to approach talking about death to someone you love? Here are a few things to keep in mind when it comes to discussing death with someone in your life:

 

Be Honest

Because this is a painful subject to broach, people are often tempted to find the perfect or the most clever thing to say. It might even be tempting to try to deny what's happening altogether and minimize the pain you are all going through. Instead, opt for frank and open conversations about death-being as honest as possible about how you are handling this confusing and heartbreaking situation is both liberating and soothing for all involved.

 

Listen and Stay Calm

Listen to the other person and pay close attention to their body language. Take note of their tone of voice, be aware of any changes in how they are speaking and behaving during your conversation, and change the course of the conversation if it becomes too uncomfortable. Being this emotionally intimate with someone can be difficult, and it is always hard to see someone you care about express vulnerability and anguish. Don't let that get to you; instead, stay calm and keep yourself grounded during your conversation about death. 

 

Encourage Additional Support

If the topic of death is still too challenging of a subject to cover, even with all of these tips, professionals are available to help you and your loved ones deal with their grief. Speaking to a bereavement counselor or a therapist is a great place to start. Locate a bereavement counselor by researching local counseling services or charities that specialize in grief and bereavement. You can also seek spiritual support from a chaplain (spiritual support regardless of a person's religion or beliefs), or you can discuss your pain with a clergy member of your faith denomination.

 

Because of the difficulty of the subject in question, there is a widespread reluctance to have open conversations about death. While it's never easy to do, discussion about death amongst those grieving helps ensure that all involved will receive the proper care and support when needed most. Ending the silence about death will greatly diminish its power and will lead to an improvement in quality of life. 

 

When you need extra help with managing your grief or how to conduct yourself at a loved one's funeral, your friends at A.R.N. Funeral and Cremation understand the deep sorrow and confusion you are feeling. A.R.N. Funeral and Cremation Services is known for our compassionate funeral and cremation services and our affordable pricing. As a family-owned and -operated business, we pride ourselves on providing a more personal and compassionate level of service for our families. The caring staff at A.R.N. Funeral and Cremation Services is here to assist you with arrangements and provide pre-planning information for all walks of faith. 

 

We invite you to discover what has made A.R.N. Funeral and Cremation Services the ultimate provider of creating healing experiences in the community. Visit our website today to find out more information about how we can honor your loved ones' memory in the way they deserve. Follow us on Facebook for more information about our business and more tips on how you can cope with loss in a healthy and productive way.

 

 

Sources

https://www.dyingmatters.org/page/TalkingAboutDeathDying

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/handy-hints-humans/201703/we-need-talk-about-death

https://www.artofdyingwell.org/talking-about-death/

  
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